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5 Ways To Help You Live a Stress-Free Life As a Busy Mom

This blog post is part of a paid SocialMoms and RESCUE blogging program. The opinions and ideas expressed here are my own.

Adding two children through adoption to our family a year and a half ago was a major adjustment for everyone. Obviously it was the biggest adjustment for my three kids, but still, the every day logistics of going from one to three kids was stressful for me. I’m still learning and I often fail daily. Whether that’s yelling because the kids are being too loud, snapping at someone when I shouldn’t have or even just feeling down because the house is a mess and I have no desire to clean it.

My blog, this blog, is named Busy Mommy. I’m sure all of you can relate no matter how many children you have. But the thing is, I will always be a busy mom. I have a choice to hold that title with joy in the midst of all the stress and you do to.

How To Live A Stress-Free Life

5 Ways To Help You Live a Stress-Free Life As a Busy Mom

1. Find joy in the little things. I love flowers, but I don’t often buy them. I walk by them in the store and think, “$6? I can surely save that instead,” but you know what? I’m going to start buying those flowers because they make me happy. They bring me a little joy when I buy them and again each day as I see them sitting on my kitchen table. What little things bring you your joy? 

2. Tackle the clutter and get organized. According to scientists at Princeton University Neuroscience Institute, clutter restricts your ability to focus and causes stress. So not only are you affected, but your kids are too. Tackle the clutter and get organized and I bet your whole family will be noticing a difference.

3. Make connections.  I am a home-body and I have no problems staying in the whole day. BUT, I have noticed when I push myself to make time to meet another mom for coffee, invite another family over for dinner or join a mom’s group, I feel like I go home a better mom. The initial inconvenience of taking the time out of my day is nothing compared to the feeling of friendship, community and time for “recharging”. Get out of your comfort zone and make connections.

4. LET IT GO! LET IT GO! (Did you happen to sing that in the tune of a very popular Disney movie?) My husband mentioned that I tend to get stressed out over the little things. Most often, it’s in the mornings before school when the kids come out with slightly mismatched outfits. I have them change, they get frustrated and I get frustrated. They are at the age where they are independent enough to choose what they want to wear to school. The last few days I have not said a single word about clothing. Now, I probably wouldn’t let them leave the house in something totally crazy, but I’m letting the little nit-picking go and it’s less stressful for everyone.

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This blog post is part of a paid SocialMoms and RESCUE blogging program. The opinions and ideas expressed here are my own.

Top 5 Items to Gift This Mother’s Day

This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of Groupon for IZEA. All opinions are 100% mine.

Almost everyone has heard of Groupon, but have you ever taken advantage of their great deals? There are so many items and gifts I never knew they had. I like to scour Groupon for restaurant and activity deals because it helps me save money when I’m going out with my family of five. I have even been given Groupons as gifts and I love it! Moms can sometimes be hard to shop for so Groupon came up with a Mother’s Day Campaign including a gift shop, giveaways and promo codes just for mom!

I have three lovely women to get Mother’s Day gifts for and it isn’t always easy because each mom has their own likes, wants and interests and flowers just aren’t right for everyone.

Groupon’s Mother’s Day Gift Shop includes spa and beauty gifts, flowers and treats, jewelry and apparel, food and wine gifts and even experiences.

Top 5 items to gift this Mother’s Day

Macarons

1. A Sweet Treat – Everyone needs a little indulgence now and then. Gift mom these delicious French macarons in flavors like vanilla, strawberry, lemon or coffee. Chocolate-dipped strawberries are also a yummy choice. Or maybe your mom is more of a fro-yo gal?

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2. An Experience – Is your mom the adventurous type? How about a once-in-a-lifetime experience like a hot air balloon ride? Or maybe she’s the artsy type and would enjoy candle making or taking an art class? Or how about a wine tasting? It’s often said that people forget the presents they receive, but they remember the special moments and the memories. As a mom myself, if my kids gave me a special experience I would remember it forever!

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3. Pampering – One year my husband bought me a manicure and pedicure. It was very thoughtful of him, but I have a horrible habit of biting my nails, so I don’t have much nail to manicure so I couldn’t even use it! Many moms love pampering, but does your mom like to take care of her nails or would she rather have a massage? Groupon’s beauty and spa section has deals on everything from massages and facials to body wraps.

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4. Personalized gifts – A mom’s pride and joy are her children. The BEST gift for any mom would be a surprise photo shoot of the kids and a beautiful canvas to hang on the wall. Groupon’s Mother’s Day gift shop features several photography shoot deals and other personalized gifts that show your mom how much you care.

5 . Subscription box – Subscription boxes are all the rage right now. Did you know you can get special deals on Groupon for these monthly boxes? Instead of one gift, mom will be surprised with a monthly box showing up on her doorstep!

Check out Groupon’s Mother’s Day Gift Shop now because Mother’s Day is coming up soon! I guarantee you will be able to find the perfect gift for your mom! Enter the promo code “Sale3″ on 4/27-4/28 to receive up to 20% off of up to 3 Local Deals, 3 Goods Items and 3 Getaways Flash Deals! While you are there, be sure to check out the Mother’s Day $0 Deal for 1 Year’s Worth of Spa Days on Groupon where you could win a Year’s Worth of Spa Treatments for Mom!

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Modern + Colorful Girl’s Bedroom

It’s been over a year since we bought our home and we still have many home improvements to do including decorating. We are very conservative when it comes to spending money so it has taken time to get our house looking like “home,” but it’s finally starting to come together. One room that is almost finished is our 7 year old daughter’s room. All it needs to be complete is new window treatments, a new paint color and wall decor.

There is only one small window, which doesn’t make for good lighting, so I’m doing white walls to brighten it up and a pink accent color. I think bright colors are great for a girls room because it’s very cheery and happy. Maybe I have an ulterior motive hoping those colors will brighten the mood when we get to the middle school years.

Modern side table

My favorite piece of furniture is this Sauder Modern Yellow Side table. It goes well with Priscilla’s brightly colored chevron rug and retails for less than $100. It would pair perfectly with the Sauder Shoal Creek Collection white dresser, which we just purchased (We bought the oak finish for brother’s room!) I like adding elements made with different materials, like in this room: metal + wood.

Little girl's room.

Of course, a bedroom side table must be stocked with all of the essentials: reading materials, lighting, decor and jewelry.

Girls room colors

The easy slide drawer is the perfect amount of bedside storage and since the side table is metal, you can put magnets on it! This pink flower is a magnet decoration used for lockers, but it’s a great decoration for this side table as well.

Priscilla loves her room and I do too. I think it’s the perfect amount of simple and modern yet bright and cheery, just how a little girl’s room should be!

I like this side table!

This is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of Sauder. The opinions and text are all mine.